Those Who Are Gone, Part 1
Jul. 25th, 2025 07:21 pmMemorials for people I knew: Somehow or other, celebrity death watch completely slipped off my to-do list. My last update was apparently a year ago, i.e. in July 2024. I’ll get to that in a moment, but first let me note that I’ve gone to four memorial services or funerals in that time.
I knew Becky Feld through her husband, Harold, who is (among other things) a storyteller. They had hosted some story swaps at their home. She died in early December after a prolonged illness. I admired how dedicated Harold was to caring for her during that time.
Angela Lloyd, who was an amazing storyteller, died in early January. I first met her in Los Angeles back in the early 1990's and enjoyed her unique mix of stories and songs, accompanied by the washboard, the autoharp and other instruments. Her musical talents extended to “playing” the squeaky floor of the stage at a festival. I will never forget the directions to her home on a ranch in Victorville, which included the sentence, “you are now entering the ranch. Please sing the theme song from Bonanza.” She was a charming and quirky person and well-loved in our community.
In April I drove down to Charlottesville for a memorial ceilidh for Eve Watters, who was a storyteller, artist, and harp player. I was glad to be able to support her husband, Ian (who is an artist and storyteller in his own right), and to see a couple of other storytellers who I rarely see.
I worked closely with Mark Baird during my time supporting the Air Force secretariat. We had a running joke about his desire to go to Belize and my desire to go to Mozambique. He was smart and amiable and hard-working. He died in late November 2023, but his funeral was not until this May because of the scheduling constraints at Arlington National Cemetery. He deserved the pomp and the ceremony of full military honors, complete with a large band and a 21-gun salute. I also saw several people I hadn’t seen in quite some time at the reception afterwards.
Celebrity Death Watch - July 2024: Joe Egan was a singer and songwriter for Stealers Wheel. Joe Bonsai sang with the Oak Ridge Boys. Jim Inhofe was a Republican senator from Oklahoma. Dave Loggins wrote the song “Please Come to Boston.” Shelly Duval was a film actress who appeared in The Shining and Time Bandits among others. M. J. Engh was a science fiction writer. Bob Booker produced comedy albums, including The First Family, You Don’t Have to Be Jewish, and When You’re in Love, the Whole World is Jewish. Shannen Doherty was an actress, best known for Beverly Hills, 90210. James B. Sikking was an actor who appeared in Hill Street Blues. Richard Simmons made fitness videos, which I am slightly embarrassed to still own a couple of. Bernice Johnson Reagon was a singer and activist and founder of Sweet Honey in the Rock. Jill Schary Robinson wrote the novel Bed / Time / Story. Duke Fakir was the last surviving member of the Four Tops. John Mayall was a blues and rock musician. Lewis Lapham was the long time editor of Harper’s Magazine.
Dr. Ruth Westheimer was a sex therapist who had a popular radio show. Before that, she had fled from the Nazis as a child and, after the war, fought as a sniper for the Haganah in Jerusalem. There was a very interesting play, Becoming Dr. Ruth about her life.
Bob Newhart was a comedian and actor. His driving instructor sketch was one of the funniest routines ever. His TV shows were also funny in a low-key style.
Celebrity Death Watch - August 2024: Ina Jaffe was an NPR correspondent. Jeremy Strong wrote children’s books. Wally Amos was famous for his chocolate chip cookies. Gena Rowlands was an actress who won four Emmy awards. Peter Marshall hosted Hollywood Squares. Phil Donahue was a talk show host. Les Earnest was a computer scientist who, among other innovations, developed the first spell checker. Ron Hale and Jim Houghton acted in soap operas. Leonard Reggio was the chairman of Barnes & Noble for almost 40 years. Michael Lerner edited Tikkun, a liberal Jewish magazine.
Celebrity Death Watch - September 2024: Linda Deutsch was a journalist who covered a number of high profile court cases for Associated Press. James Darren was a singer and actor, whose roles included starring as Dr. Anthony Newman in The Time Tunnel. Screaming’ Scott Simon played piano for Sha Na Na. Alberto Fujimori was the president of Peru through the 1990’s. Tito Jackson was part of The Jackson 5. Tongsun Park was a South Korean lobbyist who got involved in a couple of scandals. Murray Greenfield cofounded Gefen publishing, which publishes a lot of books of Jewish content. Kris Kristofferson was a singer-songwriter and actor. Ron Ely was an actor, best known for playing Tarzan. Gaven Creel was a musical theatre actor. Pete Rose was a baseball player and gambler.
Sergio Mendes was a bossa nova musician whose songs included The Look of Love and The Fool on the Hill.
Ed Kranepool played for the Mets through his entire baseball career and was the last remaining player from their 1962 inaugural season when he retired in 1979. He came to my synagogue to talk and sign autographs when I was a small child and my mother made sure we all got his autograph.
James Earl Jones was an actor who appeared in numerous movies, TV shows, and theatrical productions. He had a distinctive voice and won several lifetime achievement awards.
Daniel J. Evans was the governor of Washington from 1965-1977 and a U.S. Senator in the 1980’s. He was also on my ghoul pool list.
Maggie Smith was an amazing actress, best known for The Prime of Miss Jean Brodie.
I knew Becky Feld through her husband, Harold, who is (among other things) a storyteller. They had hosted some story swaps at their home. She died in early December after a prolonged illness. I admired how dedicated Harold was to caring for her during that time.
Angela Lloyd, who was an amazing storyteller, died in early January. I first met her in Los Angeles back in the early 1990's and enjoyed her unique mix of stories and songs, accompanied by the washboard, the autoharp and other instruments. Her musical talents extended to “playing” the squeaky floor of the stage at a festival. I will never forget the directions to her home on a ranch in Victorville, which included the sentence, “you are now entering the ranch. Please sing the theme song from Bonanza.” She was a charming and quirky person and well-loved in our community.
In April I drove down to Charlottesville for a memorial ceilidh for Eve Watters, who was a storyteller, artist, and harp player. I was glad to be able to support her husband, Ian (who is an artist and storyteller in his own right), and to see a couple of other storytellers who I rarely see.
I worked closely with Mark Baird during my time supporting the Air Force secretariat. We had a running joke about his desire to go to Belize and my desire to go to Mozambique. He was smart and amiable and hard-working. He died in late November 2023, but his funeral was not until this May because of the scheduling constraints at Arlington National Cemetery. He deserved the pomp and the ceremony of full military honors, complete with a large band and a 21-gun salute. I also saw several people I hadn’t seen in quite some time at the reception afterwards.
Celebrity Death Watch - July 2024: Joe Egan was a singer and songwriter for Stealers Wheel. Joe Bonsai sang with the Oak Ridge Boys. Jim Inhofe was a Republican senator from Oklahoma. Dave Loggins wrote the song “Please Come to Boston.” Shelly Duval was a film actress who appeared in The Shining and Time Bandits among others. M. J. Engh was a science fiction writer. Bob Booker produced comedy albums, including The First Family, You Don’t Have to Be Jewish, and When You’re in Love, the Whole World is Jewish. Shannen Doherty was an actress, best known for Beverly Hills, 90210. James B. Sikking was an actor who appeared in Hill Street Blues. Richard Simmons made fitness videos, which I am slightly embarrassed to still own a couple of. Bernice Johnson Reagon was a singer and activist and founder of Sweet Honey in the Rock. Jill Schary Robinson wrote the novel Bed / Time / Story. Duke Fakir was the last surviving member of the Four Tops. John Mayall was a blues and rock musician. Lewis Lapham was the long time editor of Harper’s Magazine.
Dr. Ruth Westheimer was a sex therapist who had a popular radio show. Before that, she had fled from the Nazis as a child and, after the war, fought as a sniper for the Haganah in Jerusalem. There was a very interesting play, Becoming Dr. Ruth about her life.
Bob Newhart was a comedian and actor. His driving instructor sketch was one of the funniest routines ever. His TV shows were also funny in a low-key style.
Celebrity Death Watch - August 2024: Ina Jaffe was an NPR correspondent. Jeremy Strong wrote children’s books. Wally Amos was famous for his chocolate chip cookies. Gena Rowlands was an actress who won four Emmy awards. Peter Marshall hosted Hollywood Squares. Phil Donahue was a talk show host. Les Earnest was a computer scientist who, among other innovations, developed the first spell checker. Ron Hale and Jim Houghton acted in soap operas. Leonard Reggio was the chairman of Barnes & Noble for almost 40 years. Michael Lerner edited Tikkun, a liberal Jewish magazine.
Celebrity Death Watch - September 2024: Linda Deutsch was a journalist who covered a number of high profile court cases for Associated Press. James Darren was a singer and actor, whose roles included starring as Dr. Anthony Newman in The Time Tunnel. Screaming’ Scott Simon played piano for Sha Na Na. Alberto Fujimori was the president of Peru through the 1990’s. Tito Jackson was part of The Jackson 5. Tongsun Park was a South Korean lobbyist who got involved in a couple of scandals. Murray Greenfield cofounded Gefen publishing, which publishes a lot of books of Jewish content. Kris Kristofferson was a singer-songwriter and actor. Ron Ely was an actor, best known for playing Tarzan. Gaven Creel was a musical theatre actor. Pete Rose was a baseball player and gambler.
Sergio Mendes was a bossa nova musician whose songs included The Look of Love and The Fool on the Hill.
Ed Kranepool played for the Mets through his entire baseball career and was the last remaining player from their 1962 inaugural season when he retired in 1979. He came to my synagogue to talk and sign autographs when I was a small child and my mother made sure we all got his autograph.
James Earl Jones was an actor who appeared in numerous movies, TV shows, and theatrical productions. He had a distinctive voice and won several lifetime achievement awards.
Daniel J. Evans was the governor of Washington from 1965-1977 and a U.S. Senator in the 1980’s. He was also on my ghoul pool list.
Maggie Smith was an amazing actress, best known for The Prime of Miss Jean Brodie.